A Love Wins Media product

Queer nightlife, live

Where your people are tonight.

Hot Mess shows you the venues, events and DJs of your scene, and which of your friends are already out.

Now

Open the app and see what is happening near you right now: the bar you are in, who is spinning, and where the night is heading.

Events

Every party, drag show and DJ set in your city on one calendar, with RSVPs your friends can see.

Venues

The bars and clubs that make up your scene, with their upcoming nights and the friends who are there.

People

Follow the DJs, hosts and performers you love, hear their latest sets and never miss their next gig.

Safety, built in

You choose who sees you.

  • Members only. Everything sits behind a free 18+ account, so bans and blocks stick. People who aren't your friends see your first name and last initial.
  • Report or block anyone. Blocking works both ways, and moderators act on reports within 24 hours.
  • Chat stays in the room. A venue's chat opens only for the people who are there.
  • Bans stick. Someone banned from a venue can't see it, its events or its chat.
How Hot Mess keeps you safe →

Take it out with you

Print it. Post it.

Make a poster for your queer spaces

Pick a line, a size and a look. Every poster can carry one QR code that works on iPhone and Android, or a code for your own night.

Make a poster →